Your trunk is outside of the load triangle: draw a straight line between wheel axles (base of triangle), then draw two lines up, to form the top of the triangle over the gas tank area. Ideally, your weight (riders + luggage) should be inside the triangle's lines.
All trunks fall outside of the load triangle, even on heavy touring machines -- all modern touring machines, with OEM trunks, have warning labels inside warning not to put more than 10-15 lbs. in them... Exceeding their weight recommendation will cause the bike to become unbalanced, and dangerous to ride.
Saddlebags will almost always fall inside the triangle's lines, so this is where the heavy stuff should be placed, with light-weight items being put into the trunk. A tank bag is smack in the middle of the load triangle, so you can put heavy items inside of them, and balance won't be affected, but your gas tank might bend under too much weight.
And you have to remove that bag every time you fill up, so keep that in mind, as well.
Your backpack, with a 30-lb. laptop inside of it, was near the center of the load triangle, while it was strapped to your back, which is why the bike ran/balanced normally. Reinforcing the front fork tubes will stabilize the front end, but it won't stop the heavy load inside your trunk, from unbalancing your bike. Cheers!
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