Not sure about yield, but unless the stock bolts have been over torqued in the past, you should be able to re-use them, just use an accurate torque wrench. If you still are not sure, I'd call either ARP or Ken at CycleX. I know cyclex mainly does sohc, but they might know, or have, bolts that will fit.
For 2 and 3, are you looking for mains, or other bearings, and do they need to be honda? We have the service manual(honda) for download. I would think it should have the size. I'm pretty sure bike bandit has bearings. I guess it all depends on what you need exactly.
Head studs I have found on partsnmore.com
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